Parent’s horrid taboo topics of “MASTURBATION”“PENIS””SEX”“VAGINA”

Sexuality is a term that encompass many areas, and we hope to explore this interesting topic in our segment: SEX-uality.

Definition of Sexuality (Sexuality Resource Centre for Parents)

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Parents horrid taboo topics of “MASTURBATION”“PENIS”“SEX” “VAGINA”

The topic S-E-X is such a taboo word for parents to talk about. People have to name it the “birds and the bees” because it’s such a bad bad word.

VAGINA

PENIS

MASTURBATION

SPERM

EGG

You can shout out these terms, and they are still terms. What makes people feel so offended, uncomfortable, grossed out, or embarrassed by these terms? Your parents made you through SEX, and when you grow up, you are most likely going to do it yourself with your partner, and you will give birth to children (*if you’re a heterosexual couple) from the act of SEX itself. Sex is a basic human term. With sex, comes reproduction. What makes the word so dirty for adults when adults themselves do it?

If parents were more opened about the topic of sexuality, kids wouldn’t have to search for porn, or sexual information online when they are still not at the age of informed maturity to know what they are actually doing.

The awesome rebuttal of parents would be “this kind of thing no need teach one, you grow up ownself will know one.” How do we know how to have sex if no one teach us, or tell us? How can you be aware of something you are not even aware of in the first place?

And some of you might say that “since animals know how to do it themselves without being taught, humans also would know.” I’m no scientist, and I don’t know why some animals know how to have sex naturally, but I don’t think it is applicable to humans.

It’s because of amazing mindsets like these, you have kids going to watch porn and listening to their peer’s advice which might not always be the best method of learning. Our education system also plays a part. Primary school kids should be taught about sexuality from middle primary school. Youths in BGR are getting younger, as well as pre-marital sex. You want to teach it only in secondary school, and you don’t teach it holistically, it is too late and too little.

What is sex?

A penis inserted into the vagina, with the sperm going into the egg, forming a baby that grows inside the stomach for about 9 months, because it comes out.

SEX is not bad. Sex is something your ancestors did, you will most likely do, and if you have kids, they will do it with their own partners too, when they grow up. It is basically a human action. And no, SEX is not a dirty or immoral word. SEX is human nature. Human nature we have somehow chosen to make it taboo and wrong.

If it’s wrong, then parents – you yourselves shouldn’t engage in it as such. If saying out the word SEX is something so damn wrong, doing it would be far worse. So, don’t do it at all. Because SEX is wrong. It’s so wrong it should not even be brought up. It will corrupt the very same kids we made through SEX.

Other SEX-uality posts

Unheard Voices: The memoir of a Singaporean transgender sex worker‏

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Were we gender neutral before the labels of male, female, straight, LGBT?

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Singapore’s version: The “hype” over gender equality and feminism.”

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She’s a slut! She shouldn’t cover herself up so much!

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 Pre-marital sex is unethical and shameful. Virginity is pure virtue.

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I’m a woman that don’t identify myself as feminist, and there’s nothing wrong with it.

1Gender norms: Are the terms – Femininity and Masculinity socially constructed?

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What the hell is the difference btw Sexual – empowerment v.s. objectification?

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Are women “asking for it” when we distract males with our short skirts?

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10 thoughts on “Parent’s horrid taboo topics of “MASTURBATION”“PENIS””SEX”“VAGINA”

  1. You would be surprised to know that the reasons has got to do with the very reason for having sex! As nature would have it it is very much a ‘male’ chauvinistic thing. Male lions, bears and primates fight and even kill for it – the right to spawn only the individual’s offspring.

    Naturally with human ‘civilization’ – we are purportedly the acme highest of all living things, the human male uses his inventive and calculative mind to preserve his exclusive right to proliferate only HIS seeds. Modesty, sin (as in religion), marriage are all devices to preserve this exclusive right to the female of his choice!

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